Illegal Aliens
Here is my story, I have some passion that surrounds the illegal alien issue, you might not agree with me but hear me out on this one, since I do know a little about the topic. First let me tell you a little about myself and my family, as you can probably gather I am Caucasian , or a white boy, as the black girls at Manual High used to call me. While white boy is somewhat of a derogatory term, I came to think of it as just plain funny, in particular how it was spoken. It was spoken with a sort of inflection that really is hard to describe in writing , but all I can say is it was sort of WHIIITe Boi. I don’t know if that makes any sense but it did sound interesting nonetheless. About 19 years ago I met a wonderful Hispanic girl, as I write this you wont see any more references to her as Hispanic, since I never really saw that, I have always just plain loved the person, not the term used to describe her. So from this point forward she will be referred to as my wife and mother of my children. My wife is a great person, and I would have to say the reason our kids are such great kids, is primarily due to her. I am writing a book and the first part is devoted to her, and the kids, since they are really the best people I know in the world. Of course I am biased on that fact, but that is beside the point.

My wife is a third generation Mexican, and in terms that others would understand that don’t live in the Southwest, that means, her mother’s mother was a Mexican from Mexico, so her grandmother was an illegal alien in no uncertain terms. My wife’s mother became a naturalized citizen here in the US ONLY because she was actually born here. Perhaps that actually makes my wife a second generation US citizen, I don’t know. The whole point here is their relatives were illegal in this country.

You will see why that has bearing on this story later in the blog.
The story I have to tell you about the things we have experienced as a mixed racial couple , whatever the hell that means.

I mean to us, we are husband and wife and that is it! Anyway, over the years we have had a neighbor refuse to come to our house for a barbecue,because she was a Mexican, we have had people look at us in the grocery store, you name it. The worst moment of my entire life , yes the worst, was when were in the local grocery store where we used to live, in Apache Junction. Let me just say without hammering on Apache Junction, it is not known for its diversity so the population there is basically working class white folk.

So we are standing in line getting groceries, and a skin head starts eye balling us. How did I know he was a skin head? Hmm, perhaps the bald head …….with a swastika tattoo, probably was the first clue! As we paid for the groceries we began to walk out of the store, and this guy starts following us, still eyeballing us like there was some sinister evil thought in his mind. Just to add to the stress of the situation , we had our two little children with us , who were 2 and 5 at the time. We rushed out of the store, and the guy continued to follow us and sort of grumbled something to us, but you know what, I knew I could not take him, so as the song says “gimme three steps” so we got the hell out of there, jumped in the car and sped off. We have never been so scared in our entire lives.



When I got home I took a deep breath and felt something I had never felt in my entire life as a Whiit Boi, yes it was the feeling of racism. This feeling is well beyond words, since you really don’t understand why another human being can hate you, your wife, and especially your beautiful little kids, for no real reason. What reason could there be?? It is a deep sinking feeling that makes you lose hope in the world, if not for a minute, maybe always, depending on the person. It is also a feeling that will never leave you, and will make you think about things differently the rest of your life. I can tell you that was well over ten years ago, and the feeling has never left me. I react differently to people because, of it. I tend to gravitate to others that perhaps have felt the same feeling, although I rarely discuss it with them. Back in those days ( it was the 80′s, the Reagan era) I was well on my way to becoming another young republican, that single moment in my life, had steered me to become a Democrat since I truly believe that party’s core values are people and diversity( well I have to add that I really don’t believe the party system is a good way to go, I would have to say I am realist and vote based on what I feel is right, not what a party or group of people think). Today I look at the world around me and see injustice where I don’t think I would have ever seen it before.
One more story to give some additional background, a few weeks ago an individual came into town and we went out to lunch, there were actually three of us at the table, three guys. As guys go, we always joke around, and make fun of each other , it really is allot of fun, and harmless. Well, in the past few week Sheriff Joe Arpaio, has been running round ups to rid the county of the scourge we all know as the illegal aliens, I mean, 99% of them are great people, the other 1% ruin it for others and cause some trouble, so for that the entire lot must be cleansed.

So on this day Sheriff Joe had publicized the round up, probably mostly for the publicity since after all this is an election year. So one of the guys turns to me and says “is your family in the house today?” I thought yea I guess it is hot out? I really was not sure what the heck he was talking about. I said “yes, why do you ask?” he says “cause Sheriff Joe is doing his roundups”. At first I did not get it, and the other guy at the table was cackling like a hyena, I looked over at him, and he tried to quell his laughter, at the point I could feel the blood rush to my head, and I thought what in the hell?

Could someone be this callous to make a joke about my family. I looked at both of them, and told them I did not think was remotely funny. Of course they both apologized, but I sat there and just thought I should either kick the guys ass, or leave. I swallowed hard and bucked up and took a deep breath, and tried to move on. We ate lunch, and left , and needless to say it was an awkward lunch.
We drove back to the office and that was the end of it. Later that night I got an apology email from the guy, and was still pretty mad, so thought I needed to sleep on it and calm down.


The other guy phoned and asked if I was mad at him, and I said not really, I was mad at the situation, since you see, the guy who made the joke really is a great guy and did not mean anything by it, but that comment brought that feeling right back to the surface, but this time is was extreme hatred and anger and how stupid people could be. Just think about this , I am a pretty successful guy, and have done OK for my family, and struggle with this issue, think about the poor people who come here from Mexico who are literally powerless over the situation. Think about all those people, for the most part, they are good salt of the earth folks that come here just to have a better life, they have no control over the country they were born in. Those people can’t help that the government of Mexico is corrupt and has done a terrible injustice to them. They come here and work hard, pay their bills, allot of them buy houses , etc. Is it their fault our country’s immigration laws are so complex they could never even hope to get through them without the help of a lawyer? No not very funny at all.

My wife went to nail tech school with a young lady, who we later found out was illegal . Remember the feeling, well this time I felt it for her, and thought I am going to help her get her citizenship papers, so I google the stuff and find the site to get things started. I am here to tell you that INS site and the documents you have to fill out will make your head swim. I did not now where to even start, and I have a friggin college education!

So the gal goes to a lawyer here in town and pays the guy 5000.00 dollars of her hard earned money she made doing nails, well guess what? The lawyer was a snake, and just took her money, then when he got busted for it, turned over his client list to the INS, and they tracked her , AND her kids down, and promptly returned them to Mexico. If you ask me, that was completely jacked man, I mean she was trying to do the right thing. So the little gal spends her last 5000.00 dollars, and pays a coyote( a coyote is a hired person to get people across the border) to get them back. She paid for her kids only, and it is amazing to me that the kids actually made it back. After all ANYTHING could have happened to those kids. The little gal actually came back on her own through the desert. Simply amazing that she made it back. You might say at this point why didn’t she try and get the citizenship done prior to coming here? If you have ever been to Mexico, you will know the answer to this, there simply are no good ways to go about it. She stayed for a while but could not live here without fear of the Immigration folks coming to get her. She has since left the state and moved to another state further in the country, since the heat of the INS is not as prevalent where she is now. I don’t know what happened to her or her kids since they left. It does make my heart sink every-time I think about it, that feeling again.

My real issue with the so called round ups is, it is not the job of our local police to do this, I mean we pay our taxes for them to do a job. I read the other day that crime statistics for other type of crimes, like robbery, murder, are beginning to slip, I think due in part to the focus on this topic. My point is, we have an entire department of the Federal Government devoted to immigration and they should handle it, that is what they are paid to do! Not to mention, most of the folks Joe is rounding up are the people who just want to cut the grass, or sell popsicles on the street corner, hardly a threat to our way of life.

Today we got up early, and went out to shoot images of some of the day laborers, I state it like that since I don’t know for a fact that they were indeed illegals, got that Joe? So you can’t say I am a party to anything illegal. As I was shooting the images I saw a sign that said it was illegal to pick up day laborers, wow that was something I did not know! I wonder how many people don’t realize that? I mean how many people go pick up some guys to help out in the yard, spread some gravel or other yard tasks, illegal! This brings to mind a thought, since it is illegal to pick up day laborers, why not arrest those folks? They are breaking the law as well! We chatted with some of the guys on the corner, well my wife did in Spanish, we told them we were just shooting pictures for my hobby, some did not want their picture taken and turned away, for obvious reasons. Yes, I am shooting pictures for fun, but on this day, my goal was to change the world in some way. While I don’t have much impact on all the politics and the issues, this day was mine and theirs! You see if just one person reads this, and looks at the issue from a different perspective I did it! I changed the world, one image at a time!

I don’t want to end this by just telling some stories , but I would offer up a solution for what it is worth. I totally agree with people who say we spend money on folks who come here to provide health care, and other services. I am here to tell you those people who stand out there trying to make a living would have no problem paying taxes, and paying social security. So that is what I offer, why don’t we create some worker program where they pay their taxes just like everyone else? Yes, of course there would be those who try to bypass the system, but knowing a bunch of these people, I can tell you for a fact that they would gladly pay just to stay here and enjoy a life that they could not otherwise enjoy in Mexico.
There are more elements to the topic, which include the immigration of those from other countries( my ex step dad was Canadian and he was here illegally for about 20 years and no one ever hassled him, and he was a complete dirtbag). This is not a simple topic to fix, but you know what, if we can build cities and go the moon, we can certainly solve this issue. I urge you to help fix this in some little way, do it , change the world!
In closing I would just like to say this has been the most incredible summer for me, since I have discovered a way to impact things that I thought I could not before. I have discovered a talent I had long forgotten, and use it to awaken others….Hopefully this has done just that.
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